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Lessons From Nelson Mandela On Giving

Nelson Mandela on giving has got to be one of the most powerful role models for us. He inspired us during his struggle and continues to inspire us after through his legacy. July 18th is International Nelson Mandela Day, his birthday, and celebrates the idea that each individual has the power to transform the world. Each individual has the ability to make an impact. We can all do actions that fight poverty, promote peace, celebrate and embrace cultural diversity, through volunteerism and community service.

Could that be more powerful? Could Nelson Mandela on giving align any closer with our mission to empower people to change the world through the action of giving, one day, one give at a time? I feel that I have learned hundreds of lessons from Nelson Mandela, with five lessons being forefront in my mind, and I hope forefront in yours as well. His use of peaceful protest, through kindness and shared experiences is a lesson we can all embrace, and use every day.

Kindness Is A Catalyst for Change

Being kind to others, true kindness, does generate change. Giving to others is a way of being kind, and we are full supporters of that idea! We also know it does change the world, situations, communities and people, when they start giving and being kind every day. Consider this scenario. Someone is struggling to put a heavy box in their car. They are frustrated, having a hard time and are just about to give up. You can either walk by this person and let them have a difficult time, leaving them in a state of defeat, or you can offer to help them with the box. Their frown turns to a smile. They thank you and share this story at home with their partner, a family member or their neighbour. You took three minutes out of your day and turned a frown into smile by giving to someone who you did not know. Both of you feel good about the task and the positive story is shared with others. That is kindness. That sparks change in people.

Here are some other gives that share kindness and spark change in you and others:

  1. Smile at a stranger when you walk by them.
  2. Help a senior cross a busy street.
  3. Bake cookies and deliver them to a friend, a co-worker, a neighbour, or family member.
  4. Give a ride to someone going to the grocery store. Or even better, do their shopping for them, during COVID, to decrease social contact.

Nelson Mandela On Giving – Forgiveness Is Key

Did a friend miss a lunch break? Did an co-worker not make a deadline for your project? Did a family member forget your birthday? Did someone say something unkind to you? Forgiveness is powerful and a great give when the opportunity arises. People are not perfect, and we do make mistakes. Forgiveness of others imperfections will make your life easier and teach a valuable lesson to others. Forgiveness of ourselves is also important. If we harbour anger, pain, resentment and unhappiness, it is hard to make room for happiness in our lives. Forgive for your next give and the door to happiness will open a bit wider.

Change Begins From The Inside Out

When we talk about our 365 Challenge, we look at ways each of us can start a daily giving habit to increase our own personal happiness. We also know that your actions will spread happiness to others, but making change does start inside each of us first. We have shared the research on happiness and how to build a habit. But the only way we will change the world is if we change ourselves first. So let start that change first, and give every day, one small act of giving so we change the world, one give at a time!

End Right Vs Being Right

Being Right comes from ego. Ending right comes from the heart. When we give we are ending right, and make the world a better place. When we give daily it is not a big show of giving, it is completing one small give for another person that just makes the day a good one, and ends the day right. Here are some giving ideas that will have you end right:

  1. Say thank you to someone who does something nice or courteous
  2. Do an extra chore around the house that no one is expecting you to do
  3. Plant an extra flower, or herb, or tree in your yard that the butterflies and bees will like
  4. Make a present or piece of art work out of recycled items
  5. Read a book to a child or give a book you are finished with to someone who would like it
  6. Take a 3 minute shower to save water

Bond Over Shared Experiences

This has to be one of my favorite lessons, and have supported this for my entire life. I was tought this as a child and continue it into my adult life, with my kids, my friends and my family. My life has been richer by sharing experiences, and others have appreciated the ‘I see you’ moments when we have asked others to share in our experiences. My kids are wonderful at recognizing when someone is left out, or are playing on their own, or feeling lonely and could use a good old laugh. This message extends even further today as we start the conversation, again, about racial injustice and  inequalities, teaching us to share our experiences and listen to the experiences of others so we can all find a way to learn, understand and right the wrongs of our society, policies and historical wrongs. Sharing and asking others to share is a true ‘I see’ moment that is a powerful give.

Volunteer on July 18th to Celebrate Nelson Mandela Day

Volunteer remotely or in person on July 18th to celebrate Nelson Mandela Day. Pick one of his passions, fight poverty, promote peace, and support cultural diversity. This give would honor the man Nelson Mandela was and what he tought us, teachings that ring true in 202 and clearly show that his fight for justice and equality is not finished yet.

Join the 365give community to find more giving ideas and share your giving experiences with others. Change happens when we each embrace a small, positive idea and make it a daily habit. You too can be part of our global change network when you join us.


What people are saying about 365give

“I wanted to express my gratitude for the teaching you provided today. Your message was delivered eloquently, compassionately, and without judgment. The kids were engaged, and now have knowledge with which they can change the world. We all appreciated how you took the time to help us learn to build positive mindsets and practice happiness.”
Shelley Gardner, Grade 6 Ridgeview Elementary (West Vancouver)
“Actions really do speak louder than words, which is why I believe the 365give Challenge has resonated throughout my community. Every give we do is so important to us and leaves us happier and appreciating our lives a little bit more than before.”
Mahina Niyozova (Tajikistan)
“After watching the 365give TEDx Talk, I was inspired to join and begin a daily giving program in India. Today, along with 12 other volunteer women, we provide 100 meals to local underprivileged children in Bangalore for school every day.”
Deepika Ahuja, Mom (Bangalore, India)
“My life has greater meaning now.”
Renate Jorge, @BeKindBrazil and 365give Member, Family Program (Brazil)
“I just wanted to share that 365give really helped me. I am a better person now, thank you.”
MayLee, 365give Member, Individual Program
“This 365give Challenge has really injected excitement and extra enthusiasm in each work day as I think about what we can do. It has motivated me and the students.”
Cristina Peters, School Counselor (New York City, USA)
“I have seen a huge shift in energy throughout my classroom since doing the 365give Challenge. The Challenge has empowered my students to make a positive difference in the school’s community and beyond.”
Cella Adriana, Special Needs Educator /The Holliswood School (New York City, USA)
“The 365give Challenge helps students understand their impact on others. It opens avenues for introducing and discussing global and local issues in classrooms. It is powerful to watch students of all ages think about how they can make a change in another person’s life with one small act.”
Jessica Hall, Primary Teacher, French Immersion at École Pauline Johnson (West Vancouver, Canada)